{"id":40468,"date":"2017-07-05T08:53:37","date_gmt":"2017-07-05T14:53:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/?p=40468"},"modified":"2017-07-05T08:54:33","modified_gmt":"2017-07-05T14:54:33","slug":"oxford-woman-reunites-with-english-pen-pal-30-year-later","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/oxford-woman-reunites-with-english-pen-pal-30-year-later\/","title":{"rendered":"Oxford Woman Reunites with English Pen Pal 30 Year Later"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Though largely an antiquated hobby now, pen pals were once very common. People would often even have several pen pals at a time, exchanging letter and getting to know these complete strangers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Almost 40 years ago,<strong> Robin Bolton<\/strong> of <strong>Oxford<\/strong>, <strong>Mississippi<\/strong> and <strong>Carol Szyszlyk <\/strong>of<strong> Suffolk<\/strong>,<strong> England<\/strong>\u00a0became pen pals. The two bonded over the details of each other&#8217;s lives despite there being a bit of a cultural barrier<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&#8220;I didn&#8217;t understand a third of things she said to me,&#8221; said Bolton. &#8220;I remember being very methodical and spelling out everything that I thought. She was studious and made it happen, I was the worst writer.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The two ended up bonding over <strong>Elvis<\/strong>, who grew up not far from Bolton&#8217;s hometown of <strong>Memphis<\/strong>, <strong>Tennessee<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">\u00a0&#8220;He was my dad&#8217;s idol,&#8221; said Szyszlyk.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">After Bolton&#8217;s parents divorced she was forced to move, losing contact with Szyszlyk. In 2009 she began searching for her English pen pal on Facebook but had no luck. Bolton dug up her friend&#8217;s old address and sent a letter hoping someone would read it and know where Szyszlyk was now living. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">&#8220;I penned a letter hoping someone would track down this family and fair enough her daddy still lived there,&#8221; said Bolton.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">It turns out her father was still living at that address. He put the two in touch and they were finally able to have that weekend together they had always talked about.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/TheLocalVoiceLigature-25web.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"25\" height=\"16\" class=\"size-full wp-image-14544 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/TheLocalVoiceLigature-25web.jpg?resize=25%2C16\" alt=\"The Local Voice Ligature\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">(<a href=\"http:\/\/www.aol.co.uk\/travel\/2017\/06\/27\/penpals-meet-after-40-years-usa-uk\/\">source<\/a>)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Though largely an antiquated hobby now, pen pals were once very common. 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