{"id":39237,"date":"2017-04-28T08:00:47","date_gmt":"2017-04-28T14:00:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/?p=39237"},"modified":"2017-06-05T15:15:18","modified_gmt":"2017-06-05T21:15:18","slug":"view-from-the-balcony","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/view-from-the-balcony\/","title":{"rendered":"View From the Balcony"},"content":{"rendered":"

My college music history professor, Dr. James Downey<\/strong>, once proclaimed, \u201cThe art of conversation is dead!\u201d For some unexplained reason I felt like I\u2019d been kicked in the gut. Even at the age of 22 something inside me knew that if Dr. Downey were right, the world would have lost something precious and priceless. But back then I didn\u2019t believe that the art of conversation was dead. I don\u2019t believe it is now, either.<\/span><\/p>\n

As far as I\u2019m concerned, the Southwest corner of The Balcony<\/strong> above City Grocery<\/strong> is the best seat on The Square<\/strong>. There\u2019s a shot glass of judgment and a barrel full of love there. No matter the weather or my state of mind, I always feel at home there. And, as we all know, there\u2019s no place like home.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes I like to sit in the Southwest corner of The Balcony, sip on a greyhound, smoke a pipe, and read a good book. I like to watch people, too. Most of all, I like to connect with friends through dialogue, talking and listening as good comrades do, and perhaps meet a new friend or two. The Balcony is a perfect crucible for all that to blossom.<\/span><\/p>\n

Genuine verbal communication is suffering terribly at the hands of technology. I can\u2019t tell you how many times I\u2019ve seen folks sit down, whip out their cell phones, and start texting or twittering ninety to nothing. Geez, Louise! Some of my friends and I have already banned Googling on The Balcony. Maybe we should outlaw cell phones too!<\/span><\/p>\n

One of the wonderful things about The Balcony is that you never know who\u2019ll be there. On any given night there could be visitors from France or South Africa or Japan sitting next to you. You might share a quiet t\u00eate-\u00e0-t\u00eates with a well-known actor, musician, writer, artist, or artisan. As the night progresses and the dead soldiers pile up, your conversation might become a bit bawdy, as the Great Raconteur of the evening regales all others with their grand tales of adventure.<\/span><\/p>\n

Without any effort you\u2019ll overhear people talking about most anything\u2014vacations, woes at work, art, literature, babies, love interests\u2014you\u2019ll pretty much hear it all. Eavesdropping on The Balcony is not necessary. You\u2019re in such close quarters up there that just about everyone there knows what you\u2019re saying. Despite that, Balcony Dwellers respect others\u2019 space and try to turn a deaf ear\u2014most of the time.<\/span><\/p>\n

When I can stay up late enough I get to watch the shift in demographics on The Balcony. Geezers head home between 7 & 9, and then hoards of students take over. I\u2019ve been delighted at the number of students I\u2019ve talked with on The Balcony who are capable of engaging in deep dialogue. That gives me hope for the future of conversation and diplomacy.<\/span><\/p>\n

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The interesting and intriguing things don\u2019t stop at The Balcony\u2019s railings, though. There\u2019s a lot that happens on the streets and sidewalks below. From my crow\u2019s nest I can see about three-quarters of The Square. Very little within eye-shot of The Balcony gets missed. You can see and hear just about everything that takes place on the sidewalks of Oxford Town<\/strong>\u2014the good, the bad, and the ugly.<\/span><\/p>\n

Here\u2019s the deal. Most of The Balcony Dwellers are real in that they aren\u2019t trying to be someone they\u2019re not. The pretense level is 87.4% less than at any other place in Oxford. There\u2019s a barrel of love and only a teaspoon of judgment up there. If you\u2019re new, you\u2019re welcomed. If you\u2019ve been there for a while, you\u2019re family. And if you get too big for your britches, somebody\u2019s going to call you out on it and somewhere down the road you\u2019re going to thank them for having done so.<\/span><\/p>\n

There\u2019s no shortage of subject matter for this column. I\u2019ll be writing of the plethora of experiences that occur both on and off The Balcony. If you\u2019re on The Balcony or in sight of it and you get the feeling that somebody\u2019s watching you, that\u2019d most likely be me. But don\u2019t worry. I always change the names to protect the innocent and the guilty alike.<\/span><\/p>\n

Thanks to Newt Rayburn<\/strong> and Nature Humphries<\/strong> of The Local Voice<\/strong><\/em> for the chance to give life to one of my ideas, and to John Currence<\/strong>, owner of The Balcony, for the \u201cgo-ahead.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

I hereby by boldly declare that the art of conversation is not yet dead. On The Balcony above City Grocery, the art of conversation is very much alive and well.<\/span><\/p>\n

And that\u2019s the view from The Balcony. \"The<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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