{"id":19252,"date":"2014-11-24T16:15:26","date_gmt":"2014-11-24T21:15:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/?p=19252"},"modified":"2015-11-12T17:23:18","modified_gmt":"2015-11-12T22:23:18","slug":"growing-up-in-oxford-the-son-of-a-bulldog","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/growing-up-in-oxford-the-son-of-a-bulldog\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Growing Up in Oxford the Son of a Bulldog&#8221; by Carver and Taylor Rayburn"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 24pt; color: #ff0000;\"><strong>\u201cThe Son of a Bovine\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">by Thomas McCarver Rayburn<\/span> <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/TommyRayburn_andsons.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"473\" height=\"334\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-19253\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/TommyRayburn_andsons.jpg?resize=473%2C334\" alt=\"TommyRayburn_andsons\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/TommyRayburn_andsons.jpg?w=473&amp;ssl=1 473w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/TommyRayburn_andsons.jpg?resize=300%2C211&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 473px) 100vw, 473px\" \/><\/a>I\u2019ll never forget the look on <strong>Pat Tatum<\/strong>\u2019s face when \u201cHail State\u201d was played at the conclusion of my father\u2019s funeral. Shock. Then a smile. Then a slight shake of the head. Defining the moment of <strong>S.T.<\/strong> getting in one more jab at his numerous <strong>Ole Miss<\/strong> friends as his body was laid to rest in Oxford Cemetery.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">November 1, 1986, was the day my father introduced me to <strong>Mississippi State<\/strong> football. At just eight years old, it was also the day I figured out they were not the team for me. Too much Clanga.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">We woke early that day. Dressed warmly and comfortable for a 90 mile trip to <strong>Starkville<\/strong> from <strong>Oxford<\/strong> in a Bronco II. The trip was one on the path less traveled as we ran out of gas just outside of <strong>Okolona<\/strong>. Not a good start, Dad.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The <strong>Bulldogs<\/strong>, ranked No. 19 at the time were set to host No. 8 <strong>Alabama<\/strong>, on campus for the first time since 1962. The games had been played in <strong>Jackson<\/strong> when Mississippi State hosted up until that day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The game was electric before kickoff. Then, it started. <strong>Bobby Humphrey<\/strong> rushed at will against the Dogs that day, racking up 284 yards on the ground in a 38-3 Alabama victory. The ride home to Oxford was somber. I think he smoked about 40 Winstons before we made the turn into Lakeway Gardens.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cStill haven\u2019t seen that team win a home game,\u201d he said. \u201cThey never won a game I was at in college, either.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I\u2019ll pass on the Bulldogs, Pops. Besides, all my friends growing up in Oxford were crazy about <strong>Billy Brewer<\/strong>. I\u2019ll rebel and be <strong>Rebel<\/strong>. It\u2019s more fun to cheer for the home team. You can be the nonconformist.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Flash forward to 2012. My son <strong>Hart<\/strong> was given an opportunity to choose his team early on. At just eight months of age, the Clanga side of the family decided it would be a great idea to give the newest Rayburn a cowbell. Within minutes of receiving the worst gift I could ever imagine, Hart promptly vomited on the bovine\u2019s badge of honor. Case closed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><em><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/TommyRayburn.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"1071\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-19254\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/TommyRayburn.jpg?resize=600%2C1071\" alt=\"TommyRayburn\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/TommyRayburn.jpg?w=600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/TommyRayburn.jpg?resize=168%2C300&amp;ssl=1 168w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/TommyRayburn.jpg?resize=573%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 573w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/em><\/span>A top 10 matchup between Mississippi State and Ole Miss, crazier things have not happened. This one is going to be good.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><em>Carver Rayburn is Tommy Rayburn\u2019s second son. Carver graduated from Ole Miss in 2002 with a degree in Journalism-Public Relations.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0&#8211;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 24pt; color: #800000;\"><strong>\u201cA Fox in the Hen House\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong>by Samuel Taylor Rayburn<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">To most people\u2019s surprise, there are actually a few <strong>Mississippi State <\/strong>fans who have invaded and been raised in the confines of Oxford, Mississippi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I am one of these few.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">My father was a State fan and raised me my first six years to love Mississippi State. There were three sons before me to defect his alma mater for the enemy. So, as my mother once told me, he did what he could to guarantee that I would not do the same. My casual baby clothing included two themes: Harley biker clothes or State gear. We went to almost all the home games via RV, and watched every away game from home.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/TommyAndTaylor.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"550\" height=\"541\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-19256\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/TommyAndTaylor.jpg?resize=550%2C541\" alt=\"TommyAndTaylor\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/TommyAndTaylor.jpg?w=550&amp;ssl=1 550w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/TommyAndTaylor.jpg?resize=300%2C295&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/TommyAndTaylor.jpg?resize=50%2C50&amp;ssl=1 50w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 550px) 100vw, 550px\" \/><\/a>Unfortunately during my first six years State played badly\u2014as they had for years. It was so bad during that time that many asked him, \u201cWhy do this to the kid? State will never win.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">So 2014 is a bittersweet season: my dad is not here to witness it. The eleventh anniversary of my dad\u2019s death is November 30th and he would be in rare form now\u2014barely believing we were number 1 in the country, even if for only five weeks.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Mississippi State has had a magical year, one with many ups and downs, great highs, the Auburn game, and horrible lows, the Alabama game. But one thing is certain: for the first time ever Mississippi State will roll into Oxford with both teams ranked in the top 10.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Growing up in Oxford a State fan actually stinks, a lot, especially when <strong>Ole Miss<\/strong> wins the <strong>Egg Bowl<\/strong>. I\u2019ve literally heard every cow joke one could think of and I\u2019ve been told of how the cowbell is an abomination and about a half billion times that Ole Miss leads the Egg Bowl series. But I get it, it comes with the territory. And through it all I am the same, a State fan\u2014what I was raised to be.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">My father\u2019s death when I was just six gave way for my determination to remain a Mississippi State fan. It has given me a resilience and toughness to stick through the rough and hard times, to stay who I am when nothing seems to go right for my team, to never abandon ship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><em>Taylor Rayburn is Tommy Rayburn\u2019s fourth son. Taylor is a Senior at Lafayette High School in Oxford. He plans to attend Mississippi State next fall.\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/TheLocalVoiceLigature-25web.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"25\" height=\"16\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-14544\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/TheLocalVoiceLigature-25web.jpg?resize=25%2C16\" alt=\"The Local Voice Ligature\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cThe Son of a Bovine\u201d by Thomas McCarver Rayburn I\u2019ll never forget the look on Pat Tatum\u2019s face<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":238,"featured_media":19257,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[1687,4862,4859,2431,4861,4860,4448,4858,1644,7067,4,4857,700,4863,1728,655],"class_list":["post-19252","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ole-miss","tag-billy-brewer","tag-bobby-humphrey","tag-bovine","tag-bulldogs","tag-cow-bell","tag-cowbell","tag-egg-bowl","tag-hail-state","tag-mississippi-state","tag-ole-miss","tag-oxford","tag-pat-tatum","tag-rebels","tag-rivalry","tag-starkville","tag-university-of-mississippi"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/EggBowlTBTFeat.jpg?fit=620%2C349&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19252","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/238"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19252"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19252\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19257"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19252"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19252"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thelocalvoice.net\/oxford\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19252"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}